If you think you’re special because you have an addiction, you are wrong. That’s just another one of those false beliefs we all cling to for dear life. The fact that your addiction happens to be heroin and mine is Cheetos is only relevant in that your addiction is socially unacceptable, but mine is fine. …
During your life you will have all types of relationships. They range from casual temporary to extremely intimate. When your relationships suck, life sucks. Sometimes the solution is easy, you simply remove yourself from the person(s). Problem solved. Unfortunately, it’s rarely that easy. Maybe we don’t get along with a family member like a mother, …
Just to make sure we’re both on the same page, it’s important that you understand what I mean when I use the term religion. Religions attempt to answer the big questions. Why am I here and how did I get here? Where did the stars come from? What happens to me after I die? Religions …
This morning I was reading an article about the horrors of living in Norway. In the article, “Why Norway is a BS argument for higher taxes” by author Simon Black. He argues that the Norwegian system of government produces a population of unproductive dolts because its more socialist government lacks necessary incentives. To Simon, I …
We can easily forgive a child who is afraid of the dark; the real tragedy of life is when men are afraid of the light. (Plato) The other day a friend of mine on FB posted a story about a border guard lamenting the rock throwing by Mexican immigrants. I listened to the video and …
Today I was harshly chastised and accused of being homophobic. Ouch! I must admit that, instead of being the adult in the room, it pissed me off. Here’s what happened. I meet with friends today at a local coffee shop for fun. At least, usually it’s for fun. Today the conversation was about real estate. …
Waste time focusing on bad things you can do nothing about There are many things that are out of your control. When these things are negative, every second you waste focusing on them is sucking the joy out of your life. Let’s look at some examples. You see a show that a meteor is going …
Humans like to be loved. We like a warm smile, a tender touch, and loving arms to enfold us when we’re feeling weak and vulnerable. You probably envision yourself as a provider of that basic human need. You march happily through life thinking that you are a loving and compassionate person. But are you? The …
Before I begin, I just want to say to you kids that these questions are not an attempt to disparage anyone’s beliefs. They are simply the questions rolling around in my head for which I have been unable to answer. Maybe you can. If so, leave a comment below. No snarkiness please. If the …
I must admit, sometimes I totally befuddle myself. Too many times in my life, I’ve tried to figure out the whys behind what I do. “Vic, what were you thinking?” “Why did I do that?” “Why did I say that?” “Why can’t I seem to get motivated?” “Why am I procrastinating?” Those questions have taken …